Let’s replay a scenario some parents may be familiar with after four months of children at home. It’s 5:30 a.m. Parent is getting up for work and hears the shower. It’s their 9th grade son. Parent’s first thought: “How wonderful! Early bird gets the worm!”
Then said parent realizes the son is showering before he goes to bed after a long night of video games and social media.
With school just a few weeks away, many of us parents are facing the grim reality that our middle school children are keeping the same hours as college frat boys.
For months on end (already double the time of a traditional two-month summer), kids have devolved into “extreme unstructured behavior,” according to a sleep expert who spoke with the AJC.
While some students stayed on the ball during digital learning in spring, many teachers reported students’ wonky sleeping patterns became increasingly apparent as the weeks rolled on. Students would stay up into the wee hours on social media, playing video games, or watching television. They’d roll out of bed minutes before the online class and attend bleary-eyed and unengaged, or not show up at all.
And that was before summer vacation even started.
“What happened with coronavirus is every day became a weekend,” said Donn Posner, an adjunct Stanford University professor, “and everybody was allowed to sleep in their own preferred phase.”
That “preferred phase” for teens is later, with the pandemic “exacerbating[ing that tendency by removing the guardrails on their lives.” While pre- and elementary school-aged children have had their schedules impacted with later bed times, too, experts at John Hopkins All Children’s Hospital say children in middle and high school are “particularly susceptible to this problem.”
Interestingly, many people, including Posner, don’t agree with early school start times because it goes against older kids’ “natural rhythms” and makes them perform more poorly. Bobbi Hopkins, M.D., medical director of the Johns Hopkins All Children’s Sleep Center, said many kids have been getting closer to the recommended amount of sleep during the pandemic.
Still, reality will come knocking August 3. Fact is schools start early and kids need to be alert. Kids enrolled in the Pickens Virtual Academy are going to be held to much more structure this year, too.
It’s easy to wag a shameful finger and say parents should have been more on top of things, but it’s been an unprecedented year, adults have been stressed and – understandably - more lenient than usual. It may have been fun to stay up all night and get up barely in time for lunch, but for learning to commence this year, it’s time for the party to end. And it’s a recognized duty of all parents to have their children (from kindergarten to a high school senior) ready to learn when the bell rings.
Outside of getting kids to bed at a decent hour by shutting off devices - or doing whatever works - we need to step up and foster good education and physical habits. The pandemic has likely created gaps in learning and lazy behavior that educators will try to mitigate when school starts, but starting right this second, parents can get children prepared.
If COVID cases spike again and kids are all back home, it will be necessary for the parents to carry through on educational plans and this discipline will be needed. While it’s easy to blame the times and do nothing, ultimately that fails the children.
Let’s set our kids - and teachers - up for success by implementing positive behaviors now and keeping them up, no matter what happens in the fall. Too much more downtime on Fortnight and TikTok and our kids brains and bodies will go to mush.
By Dan Pool
Last week, in our final proof of the front page, we spotted one spot where we had “Black the Blue” instead of Back the Blue. That is a simple typo to make, a misplaced “l,” but also the kind of gaffe that keeps editors nervous.
I worry that in this overly-sensitive, ready-for-a-fight atmosphere, would readers who spotted the extra “l,” think, “Someone missed that in their proofreading,” or would they think “that newspaper did that as an intentional insult to the police. I need to organize a protest.”?
This is what keeps me up at night - the mobs, on both the right and left, scanning every public utterance to see if there is anything they can find to whip themselves into a frenzy showing how committed to whichever political side they adhere to.
A couple examples from newspapers give reason for anyone who works in any kind of publishing to be on guard.
First, in Nashville, their newspaper, which had a more than century-long history of public service and of supporting civil rights, ran a paid ad featuring images of President Donald Trump indicating that Muslims wanted to detonate a bomb in Nashville and launch a third world war.
The public outcry that followed led the newspaper to donate proceeds from the ad to an Islamic group along with a substantial advertising credit and cost their ad manager his job. Yet, there are still efforts to make the newspaper show even more contrition. There is a line that shouldn’t be crossed even with paid ads and claiming there was a threat of a bomb being set off is well over it. But what bothers me is that this newspaper had a stellar record of promoting inclusive tolerance and one poorly reviewed ad has critics yelling for its closure.
In Philadelphia, a 20-year veteran journalist resigned to quiet a firestorm brewing over his headline, “Buildings Matter, Too,” in response to damage during protests.
No mercy shown.
I spotted on our Progress social media where following our coverage of the Back the Blue event, someone queried whether we had covered the Black Lives Matter similarly. Luckily one of our readers immediately replied that yes we did. I can only imagine where they could have gone otherwise.
Those are examples from newspapers, but they could easily come from anyone who speaks in public, creates a new sign, or any business owner/manager who makes a social media post blunder.
As a community newspaper we are always open to hear from our readers, even when they are angry. I believe that when we have an irate reader, it first shows that people are reading closely each week, and second that they care what we write. So, thank you to all who have taken time to call and comment on our work, both good and bad.
We don’t expect our readers to agree with everything we publish. Heck, we publish contrasting views often. But please keep your vitriol in proper relation to whatever we did to offend you. If you really want to cancel your subscription because of one letter or column, that is certainly your choice (and a few people have done it) but we hope you’ll accept that we are open to all the different views in the community.
It’s the people anxiously looking for one minor slip by anyone, anywhere that causes my indigestion - those who believe that everyone should be fully judged on one comment, statement or act.
People who are looking for someone to lambast in order to show how righteously dedicated they are to some cause or party – find a villain to fight against in order to rally the troops.
I hope that for most thinking people if you spot something like a “Black the Blue,” go ahead and read the rest of our coverage and gauge the overall context. If you think we missed the mark, by all means let us know with a call or e-mail.
But don’t forget that typos happen or a rushed headline that seemed clever at the time, you regret once you see it print -- just like a poorly chosen joke at a party. This hyper-vigilant atmosphere where everyone is looking for something to get mad about is no fun for anyone. If you want to challenge someone’s stance that’s fine, but keep in mind, it might just be a bad keystroke.
No one should have a lifetime of solid work discredited by a single utterance or mistake.
Much has been made of late regarding how we’ve spent our time during this year’s quarantine.
Prior to shelter-at-home orders a U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics American Time Use Survey showed that on an average day, 96 percent of those age 15 and over engaged in some sort of leisure activity, such as watching TV, socializing or exercising.
For those lucky enough to be 75 or over, they spent an average of 7.8 hours engaged in leisure activities everyday - more than any other age group. Unfortunately for the 25 to 44-year-olds, they spent just a little over 4.0 hours in leisure and sports activities per day, a figure less than any other age group.
With people laid off work and stuck at home during the coronavirus pandemic and the stay-at-home orders that came with it, it’s likely more of us in the younger-than-75 age bracket got to spend a lot more time participating in those “leisure” activities for the first time since before kindergarten.
And quarantine has prompted many of us to find new and interesting ways to pass the time: Do-it-yourself projects around the house, baking sourdough bread, gardening, watching more television than normal, reading more books, or watching more birds. Basically, the quarantine forced us to return to a simpler life, similar to how people in the early 1900s must have lived.
We may still have access to our cellphones and social media, but with places of social gathering shut down, the bulk of our days were spent in our homes with our families. This slower pace of life has given us all a chance to catch our breath and have the time to pay closer attention to those around us, take an evening stroll, or just hang out with the dog.
According to the American Time Use Survey, watching TV was the activity that occupied most of our time (2.8 hours per day), in 2018. With the pandemic, that number has likely skyrocketed. Netflix subscriptions alone have soared during the pandemic, reaching 182.8 million subscribers with its streaming service, according to an April 21st article by The New York Times.
But aside from TV what have we really done with all this extra time? We sadly haven’t been watching sports.
The average lifespan is 75 years. Of that we spend 26 years sleeping and another 11 years watching TV, according to MSN News (Seems like a lot? But it runs up when you watch every episode of Game of Thrones in one month before that HBO trial subscription expires). Unfortunately, the folks at Newstrategist Research found we also spend three entire years of our life washing clothes.
Three years washing clothes? Twenty-six years sleeping?
To top that, we only spend 115 days out of our lives - a mere six minutes a day - laughing. And, according to a poll by Hilary Blinds, people spend five months of their lives complaining (that’s about eight minutes every day complaining about bad service).
To make things seem even worse, when we were commuting to work we spent 38 hours annually in traffic, according to a study by Texas A&M.
It’s estimated people spend 10 years total of their lives working (40 hours a week between the ages of 20 and 65). We spend another 4.4 years eating (or around 38,000 hours), another five years surfing the internet and one year just deciding what to wear.
Women spend 1.5 years of their life styling their hair.
A 2013 study found that on average, a US gamer over the age of 13 spends 6.3 hours a week playing video games. Imagine how that figure has likely skyrocketed during the quarantine.
Possibly the worst figure - aside from our lack of laughter - is the fact that the US Environmental Protection Agency found in a study that 93 percent of Americans’ lives are spent indoors, either inside a building or a car.
So whatever you’ve done during the quarantine and however you’ve spent your time, perhaps these figures will encourage you to:
A: Laugh more
B: Spend less time on your hair
C: Get off Netflix and spend some time outside. We live in the South and have the best opportunity to spend more of our time most of the year outdoors. Let’s do it.
Wear a mask -- by choice
We had an excellent idea from a Bent Tree reader last week suggesting this editorial. The gentleman called to say he had recently been in two Jasper restaurants and, while he didn’t want to single them out, he was bothered by the lack of any COVID prevention measures among staff and fellow patrons.
With so many changes, it is unclear what the rules are now. But it appears under the latest state orders that those restaurant employees who interact with the public should have a mask or face shield.
The caller said he didn’t want to complain. What he wanted is to go out to eat and feel safe. For business reasons, local establishments should want to do everything they can to make retirees feel safe -- better chance those in the higher risk group keep coming in.
Based on the latest news, fears of going out among the unmasked aren’t unfounded. According to the state health department, COVID cases are again rising quickly in Georgia. On June 30th, Georgia reported 79,417 confirmed cases of COVID, with 2,784 confirmed deaths. Pickens continues to be a lucky oasis with only 92 confirmed cases in this county and five deaths. Most all other nearby counties, except Fannin and Union, have seen higher caseloads.
The latest figures show that younger people are now regularly testing positive. If you are in this younger category and feel invincible to some stupid virus, you should still take precautions as a positive test for you could mean time out of work or even a closed small business. Our county recreation department had to temporarily close facilities, as they had too many positive tests to field enough people to operate – even though most of the employees were not feeling bad.
Governor Brian Kemp saw that Georgia was among the first states to relax COVID rules, and the people here need to show that his faith was not misguided and force him into taking new measures.
If avoiding any worse problems, which could include additional deaths, closures or returning statewide restrictions (possibly even missing college or pro football season, dare we say it) is as simple as wearing a cheap mask in public, then by all means do so.
It’s not about taking your rights away, it’s about doing a small thing that may help others you come into contact with.
For local government: time to plan your cuts now
According to reports from the Gold Dome in Atlanta, the state economy wasn’t as badly devastated as first feared by COVID-19. But it most surely did have some impact and could worsen as federal money dwindles. The legislature implemented 10 percent budget cuts in many places. This wasn’t as severe as first feared; 14 percent cuts across the board were initially projected.
We strongly encourage local governments and schools to follow suit with pre-emptive cuts. We encourage planners to be aggressive early. They can always scale back cuts later. To wait until the final 2020 numbers are in before taking action is head-in-sand denialism.
As an example, the city of Dawsonville announced in May they would trim $1 million from their current $7 million budget, citing the projected loss of revenue. Assuming that our neighbor with their sprawling outlet malls is more reliant on sales tax than us, we may not need a 14 percent pruning here. Following the state with their 10 percent cut sounds like good government to us.
What we would find inexcusable is for any elected official or government department head to enter the next budget cycle without concrete plans on how they can slash 10 percent and be ready to do so.
By Dan Pool
Vice President of Sheriff’s Foundation
Last week the Sheriff’s Foundation made official what many had feared since we reported that JeepFest was “unlikely” to happen several weeks ago – Sheriff’s JeepFest will not happen in 2020.
The reaction on JeepFest social media was quick, voluminous, and largely not supportive.
As a member of the board that oversees JeepFest, I wasn’t surprised that many people were upset. You take away someone’s vacation and a very fun event and people aren’t going to pat you on the back.
I am currently the vice-president of the board and have served on the board since the beginning of the event. I serve along with Shelley Cantrell, Mark Maddox, Adam Richards, and Sheriff Donnie Craig.
Much of the backlash online included speculation on why we “really” cancelled the event. Right off the bat, I want to say we made the decision. We weren’t told we couldn’t have it. Our cancellation wasn’t part of any larger conspiracy, not tied to any protests, and there was no “they” directing us on what to do.
The no-go call was made solely because of COVID concerns. JeepFest draws thousands of people from all over Georgia and from other states – Florida tags abound on the backs of Jeeps that week. With free admission to the general public there is no exact count of how many people stop by at some point to watch. We know that 2,340 Jeep owners registered for the event last year.
Pickens’ COVID numbers, thus far, are blessedly low. This good fortune is nothing to take lightly. I got a glimpse of how things could have gone differently a week ago. I went to meet with the newspaper publisher in Cornelia, about an hour and half away, still in north Georgia. I knew something was different there when the publisher, Alan NeSmith, gave me directions of how to park in the rear of his building and come through a side door, so I wouldn’t have to go through their COVID barrier at the front.
When I got in, maintaining a safe distance from Alan, I mentioned that he was taking the COVID stuff pretty seriously. The lobby there had been closed for weeks. Here is the difference, Cornelia in Habersham County has a population of 45,800 and they have had 593 cases of COVID, 82 hospitalizations and 30 deaths compared to Pickens with a population of 33,530 and our 65 cases of COVID, 13 hospitalizations and four deaths. They had one particularly bad period where the virus got into an assisted living home and killed multiple people in a short time period. It’s true a lot of people die every year from the flu, but when you see something sweep through a senior living facility leaving numerous deaths in the wake, it’s different. Keep in mind, this isn’t some metro area, this is a place the other side of Dahlonega and there is no reason it couldn’t have been us.
With JeepFest, we certainly know the impact the event has on businesses with all the extra people here to dine and shop and we recognize the impact our grants have on local non-profits and programs and we know many people really enjoy getting their Jeeps muddy and riding the trails. We aren’t oblivious to any of that.
We weighed all those pros against what if we had the event and two weeks later COVID cases here spiked? We would draw the blame and rightfully so. Would people ever forgive and forget if our event was thought to have created a nasty spike in virus deaths?
Ultimately, we weren’t comfortable taking that risk and it was a unanimous vote with no dissent among the board.
We understand the anger over the cancellation this year and want the community to understand our reasoning. It may not be the popular decision but we’ll stand by it as the right decision.